Over time, our lives can easily turn into an ever repeating routine. When this happens, we tend to write it off to the adult age. As if it’s quite normal. The excitement is reserved for the youth, while the calm waters are what we all should aim for once we grow up. But is this really the case?
If you don’t agree with what I’ve just put out in the open, then you are in the right place. Yes, it’s quite normal to lose the excitement along the way due to the harsh repetitiveness of our lives, but it’s something that can be rediscovered. This is why we have put together a list of four steps you should take towards a more exciting life.
Visiting interesting world destinations is definitely the quickest way to reignite the excitement spark. Don’t fall into the infamous trap of “I don’t have resources or time”. Put some cash aside, look for the sweet last-minute deals online, and you’ll be able to get wherever you want even if you are traveling on a budget.
Traveling is good because it can help you open up to new experiences. And we all know that new experiences inspire our senses and awaken excitement. But what’s even better is that this excitement lasts for a very long time. Once you create memories through travel experiences, you are bound to rethink them over and over, and share them with your family and friends.
You lack the inspiration? Take a look at South American and Asian destinations. While cheap, those places pack some serious fun. Renting an RV and going on a road trip in your own country is another great way to pursue excitement.
If you are in a long relationship, the things happening in the bedroom, or wherever you two lovebirds prefer to do it, can also start appearing repetitive and boring over time. If this is the case, it’s time to take things to another level. What are your options? Don’t worry, there are many.
One of the most basic things that you can pull off is roleplaying. Over the years, you probably had a sneak peek into your partner’s fantasy life. Now it’s the time do all that stuff that you’ve labeled kinky in the past. Don’t be afraid to explore the world of sex toys either. Talk with your partner, experiment and discover what suits you best.
The sexual drive is definitely one of the most powerful drives. The amount and quality of the excitement it produces can get you going for a long time.
Stress is the number one killer of excitement. It dulls our senses and makes us unable to look at things outside of our stressful lifestyle. What if we told you that there are ways to release stress, have fun, and feel that excitement pumping in your veins once again?
You can, of course, start light. Find yourself a hobby that inspires you and excites you in an intellectual way. Going out of your comfort zone is good for you. While doing it, you will set completely new goals for yourself.
Accomplishing them will build up your self-confidence, which will result in excitement. If this doesn’t pack enough of a kick for you, you can always try something more challenging, such as surfing, mountain climbing, extreme sports, and so on.
There is nothing more challenging in life than making a career change. It will make you nervous and excited. Just be careful with this one. Because people filter this in different ways. While some may see this as exciting, others can see it as stressful.
But if you dread going to work, this might be your best option to find excitement once again. Don’t jump straight into it. Build up a budget that can sustain you for a couple of months, take a breath, and venture into the unknown. The excitement is right there around the corner.
There you go. These are the four steps that will take you closer to excitement. Some of them may appear more challenging than others. This is why you should take only one step at a time. See how it reflects on you and your life and then proceed to make new exciting changes.